Leaves on the ground are the first sign that the holiday season is fast approaching, and it also means it is time to remind ourselves and each other how to stay safe while celebrating. From Halloween to New Year's, as we celebrate, we can have fun, remain vigilant, be aware, and stay safe. Use these eight tips to have a great holiday season.

1. Respect personal boundaries. Unwinding and having fun does not mean anyone has the right to invade another person's personal space. Respect individual boundaries and let others know when they have invaded yours or made you feel uncomfortable.
2. Get consent. Requesting consent before touching, hugging, or taking photos with others is critical. Remember, "No" means "No"! Consent is always crucial to respectful connections. Consent must be enthusiastic, clear, and ongoing. If someone says no, respect their decision immediately. Consent can be withdrawn anytime, even if it has already been given.
3. Choose respectful costumes and festive attire. Holiday parties are a time to be creative and expressive, but it is important to avoid costumes or other clothing that are not respectful and that could perpetuate harmful stereotypes. In any group setting, there is a diversity of thought and beliefs. No one wants their beliefs mocked or disrespected. Costumes and festive outfits should be fun and respectful of all cultures, communities, and beliefs. If you feel uncomfortable with any remarks or behaviors, trust your instincts, act by expressing your discomfort, distancing yourself from the situation, or seeking help, as with Direct, Distract, or Delegate courses of action.
4. Be vigilant. Watch for warning signs of sexual harassment. Signs such as jokes, innuendos, suggestive language, cornering or blocking, excessive flirting or inappropriate staring can be subtle. It is prudent to distance yourself from the person and alert security or a trusted source.
5. Use the "Buddy System." When celebrating at large gatherings and parties, it is easy to feel extra vulnerable. Keep an eye on your Family, friends, and loved ones and intervene if you notice any signs of discomfort, sexual harassment, or unwanted advances. Use the buddy system when attending events, stay together, communicate regularly, and leave together. Work together to keep aware of the surroundings to avoid getting caught off guard.
6. Know your resources. If you experience sexual harassment or sexual assault, it is vital to know what resources are available and remember that you are not alone. Store emergency contacts in your cell phone, such as local hotlines, law enforcement, medical facilities, police, fire, or SHARP professionals, so that you have this information readily available should you or someone you know or care about need to report an incident or seek counseling.
7. Know your limits. Alcohol can impair judgment and increase vulnerability to unwanted advances. Be mindful of how much you are drinking, and never leave your drink unattended. If someone is pressuring you to drink, it is okay to say, "No!" If you are in a group, look out for each other and step in if you see someone being pressured to drink or engage in risky behavior.
8. Be aware of your surroundings. Familiarize yourself with emergency exits and stay mindful of what is going on around you. If something doesn't seem right, do not hesitate to tell someone.

Stay alert, stay involved, know your resources and enjoy the festivities responsibly.